Now
it’s my turn. I have chosen to hike the Pyrenees Mountains with my dad this
summer for my ‘rite of adventure’. I knew the day was coming - on my 11th
birthday, my dad give me a booklet of all my options for my 13th
summer.
This
will be my dad’s second rite of adventure - one down, and two to go. As most of
you know, last summer he and my brother hiked the PCT in California, and they
raised the bar pretty high, I certainly have a lot to live up to.
I
have to admit, I am pretty scared; I don’t know what it’s going to be like, what’s
going to be out there; who knows? But don’t get me wrong, at the same time I
can’t wait. My friends don’t seem to understand how big an opportunity this
really is. They’ve been on beach holidays, where you relax, do what you like.
But this, it’s going to be a challenge. Yeah, a couple of them have been to
remote place like Alaska, but none on such an ambitious journey.
But
why are we doing this hike next summer? Well, turning 13 isn’t just any other
age; it is my first ‘teen’ year, the age of maturity, as we call it in our
family. It is all about making your own decisions; you can’t rely on your
parents for the rest of your life. It’s about becoming a young lady, taking
responsibility for your own decisions and actions.
There
were a few hikes on the list, a couple of options in which I would work in less
economically developed countries (LEDC’S), teaching children how to speak
English or building schools; things like that. Another option was to go and
spend a month in a monastery, meditating, praying, yoga, and doing particular things
at certain times, I’m still not quite sure how I could do that.
It
wasn’t easy. I struggled between a few of our options, the monastery option not
being my favourite, lets just say! For a while I leaned towards working in a
LEDC, but I don’t think I would handle the heat well, as most LEDC’S are
extremely warm, nothing like I’m used to. The decision was made. I chose the
hike.
And I thought the view from
the beach in the Caribbean was amazing.
In my opinion, the hike is
about learning to overcome the struggles we’re going to face. I haven’t even achieved the
adventure yet, and I don’t want to share this with people, asking them for financial support, that I don't know. Personally, I’m happy I can do this with family supporting
me, but I’m not sure it’d be quite the same with people I don’t know as
well.
I know that there is going to
be a lot of planning and preparation to come, and I’m mostly looking forward to
it. My head is filled with mixed emotions. Nervousness, anxiety, excitement,
urge and thrills beyond measure. I don’t know whether the hike will be far
easier than we thought, or whether we will come back more tired and exhausted
than ever. Regardless, I know that it’s going to be a great summer.